Friday, January 31, 2014

Date a Girl Who Travels (or a Free Spirit, in General)

In response to an article I read recently, Don't Date a Girl Who Travels, I have my own opinion (imagine that). This is why you should absolutely date a girl who travels (or, a free spirit, in general).



She's the one with the scars and tan lines... the ability to speak multiple languages and has more than one artistic hobby... the one who has mastered the art of playing hard, working hard and partying hard -- she's a free spirit, a riot and captain of her ship.

Date a free spirit -- a girl who travels. She isn't hard to please, she just knows what she wants. She won't be offended by your gestures of chivalry, but she'll probably be slightly confused by them. She's the girl who gets into a jam and who quickly figures out how to jury-rig the solution. She won't be impressed with your new car or watch, but she won't judge you for it. She enjoys riding in style when she's not backpacking around Central America with a pack full of a humid ridden and soggy wardrobe. She finds that it's a nice change of pace.

Date a girl who travels. She will take you off the beaten path to explore new bands, new places and eccentric foods. She will enjoy your company and feel safe by your side. She will dance till the wee hours of the morning, throwing out her elbows in defense of any dude that tries to get close to her because she knows, at the end of the night, you're all she wants.

Chances are, she doesn't want to hold a steady job. She enjoys inconsistency and mixing things up. She might be a yoga instructor or a cycling guide for Back Roads as well as having three to four other part time gigs. It keeps things fresh, it keeps her inspired and it gives her the flexibility she craves. She knows that money can always be made, so she doesn't stress about spending it on living.

Date a girl who travels. She didn't waste her parent's money on an Anthropology degree, she became worldly and open minded. She craves the experience of learning and wants to share her knowledge with you. It excites her... and, in her essence, she is exciting.

Date a girl who travels. She has chosen a life of uncertainty because she knows that life is uncertain -- no matter what lifestyle you lead. Even if you have a 9-5 -- even if you're married -- even if you're rich... she knows that that comfortability can be taken away without warning. So, she chooses to go with the flow, knowing the unexpected lies ahead for everyone. She may dance to the beat of her own drum, but she'd gladly add you and a bongo for a duet.

Date a girl who travels. She speaks her mind with grace. She doesn't intend to offend others with her opinions, but she isn't afraid to make them known. Strangers, and even your parents, will fall in love with her... be intrigued by her and find her interesting. She loves a good conversation and telling a good story... but she also likes to listen. Just know that your parents will probably start calling her before they call you to check in or make plans.

Despite your insecurities about it, she will need you. And, she wants to need you. Yes, she can pitch her own tent and jury rig any old contraption... and cook a gourmet meal, but contrary to popular belief, she likes being doted on (but, she'll never let you see that). She wants you by her side when she travels, but she wants the freedom to move around. She wants you to meet new people while she's busy bouncing around the room hearing stories from strangers. She's the one at a party who avoids talking to you all night, but gives you googly eyes from across the room -- it's her way of letting you know she's all yours.

So, do it: Date a girl who travels (a free spirit). Fall in love. Let her go. Find her and fall in love all over again. Despite what you may think, she doesn't want to be let go... she wants to be free -- with you.










2 comments:

  1. you described my current relationship perfectly

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    1. Sounds like you found a keeper, Grady! ;) Miss your face!

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